Opportunistic Affair - After the Affair Series

Why an Opportunistic Affair Is a Failure of Commitment, Not Just a Random Mistake

7 Distinct Types of Affairs / Sophia Simone

The narrative you’re likely hearing is: “It was a mistake,” “It meant nothing,” or “It was just one night when I was drunk/away/vulnerable.” The Opportunistic Affair (Type 6 Betrayal) is defined by its spontaneity and lack of planning, but this doesn’t make the betrayal any less profound. In fact, the minimization of the act is […]

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Serial Cheating vs. Opportunistic Affairs

Why Your Recovery Plan Must Be Tailored In the agonizing first months after discovery, the single biggest obstacle to recovery is the belief that “all cheating is the same.” This generalization is false, and it leads to generic, ineffective recovery efforts. Many books offer generic advice on “forgiveness” or “communication” that is tragically inadequate for